Take a look at your LJ friends list, then list things you want to say to ten different LJ friends.
DO NOT state who these people are.
DO NOT confirm nor deny any "comment speculation".
1) Your relentless optimism in the face of slings and arrows always inspires me 8)
2) I look forward to reading of your continuing efforts in your recent "second career".
3) You're most dangerous when you're also pointedly funny.
4) In spite of everything that has made you sad / hurt / angry / frustrated, you continue to play your game and share it with the rest of us. Rest assured, people are glad when you are there and miss you when you're not.
5) I have not made nearly enough music and entertainment with you yet -- gotta do sumpin bout dat 8)
6) I miss not seeing you in person. Pennsic is not enough.
7) Every time I read about the new joys in your life, I'm so happy for you that words fail me.
8) I feel privileged when you post something new you've just created. I hope you never stop creating, whether you post it or not.
9) Support from your friends is an important part of coping with physical problems. I feel sad when I know you're suffering, but I'm glad you share with us.
10) Your words have more power than you think -- sometimes less heated words can express the same valid, fervent feelings without pushing hot buttons. Your feelings deserve the attention more than potentially offended listeners do.